The Nectary is a relational monastery, research lab, and pop-up school — coming to Washington, DC from March 20-May 12, 2026.
Our first iteration took place in Victoria, BC from in the summer of 2025.
Deep relational practice
We are leading-edge facilitators of Circling, Collective Presencing, Continuum movement, men’s work, and more. In evening and weekend deep dives, we’ll offer practices we’ve found helpful in becoming the adults our culture needs.
Artisanal intelligence
As artists, meditators, writers, and builders, we’ll offer pop-up salons and spaces for beauty throughout the month. There’s never been a more important time to practice the art of attention and strengthen our capacity for creativity.
Radical giving + receiving
The Nectary is an experiment in working with money in a way that’s less harmful to our ecology and our souls. We invite you to join us in strengthening our “interdependence muscle” by giving and receiving gifts — freely.
Bonnitta Roy
“A group of wise people, tethered through intimacy, is the most powerful problem-solving system in the universe.”
Zak Stein